Tonight I fielded text message from three different attractive girls who are clearly interested in hooking up with me.
This post will be about how I have been successful with girls. It will be somewhat deceptive; there have been frequent and recent periods of my life where I would approach this from the opposite side. Right now, I’m feeling confident, and this post arises from that.
Back story: at the time of my graduation from high school, I had never made out with a girl, much less dated one. I had some social skills, a large group of friends, but I had never transferred my social strengths into my relationship with girls. By my senior year of college, I had only had relations of any kind with four girls, and my approach to each was not something I would recommend to anyone. Then came Feb Club.
We agreed to field a competition. A competition to hook up with as many girls as possible. Yes, its the worst sort of thing. To this day certain conversation with female friends become tense over the events of that february. However, something important happened: I made the decision that I would approach girls in unfamiliar situations and see what happened.
That’s all it takes. I promise. You do not have to develop an alter ego that plays along with the standard notion of what it takes to impress a girl. If you can carry on a conversation for over an hour in a scenario with drinks, then you can succeed. And the easiest way to carry on a conversation is to be completely natural.
I should try to post when I’m sober… I’ve completely lost my train of thought.
